so now that party is done what is the best site to play low limit holdem on?

Pokerstars has some pretty soft games at the low limits.

Stars is probably the best, but has no rakeback options. Actually, the games at Bodog are pretty soft also, and rakeback is available. Unfortunately, there's not a ton of traffic so it's not always easy to find a game. However, I'd say it's probably the softest site left.

i would go with bodog. but its never hard to find a soft limit game online.... they are everywhere