QUOTE (mulhs82)
tired of quoting that big post.
we should know something by tomorrow night.
Any actual ideas??
right now I'm thinking maybe dinner on friday somewhere up in this area.
(she lives in delaware, but I don't think the travel would be that bad)
Of course I could drive down there too, except I have no idea where she actually lives in Delaware.
Um, no. You offer to drive to her. Do not ask her to come up there. If she offers to come up there and really doesn't seem to mind it, that's fine. But you always offer to go to her at this early stage in this. It shows consideration and chivalry which we love in these first days.
Also about the available/unavailable thing. It is a confidence issue. Guys that are already taken aren't necessarily looking to get in our pants so we feel less pressure from them and that's nice. But that works the other way too. Guys are attracted to the casualness of unattainable women, too.
Be confident. Be sincere. Be low maintenance and low pressure. And most importantly, be yourself.
Agreed with Renae.. Don't ever ask her to come up there when you are the one asking for the date. You go to her.. that would turn me off in a heartbeat.. instant no..