sierradave
Friday, October 16th, 2009, 8:40 AM
QUOTE (revhq2646 @ Friday, October 16th, 2009, 10:47 AM)

Well first don't take all their money. If this is a regular game the only goal you should have the first game or two is to get invited back. You show up with a "You all suck and would go broke playing REAL poker", you will just piss everybody off. These guys are there to have a good time with some friends. Buy in for the minimum play wild and loose until you loose it all. Re-buy and just play like everybody else for a while. Fit in. Make somebody feel like a hero because they called you down to the river and their A9o beat your A3s on a king high board. Make sure they do not see you as a threat. Once you can have fun with these guys, you can show up every friday and take $200 home have a good time and suplement your beer money. If you ever walk out of the house with 1/2 the money in play the game will die or you will never get invited back. These guys know they suck, don't rub it in.
As for how to play, keep pots small when you have big draws and then push when you complete your hands. Check raises in some of these games are a cardinal sin so make sure you understand the 'unwritten' rules before you pull out every trick in your book. On line you piss somebody off, you hit a new table and all is good. Make one of the key people in a home game mad and you don't make it back to the party.
The difference is Phil Hellmuth v. Doyle. Doyle will never make anyone mad at the table, because he grew up needing to get invited back. Phil doesn't care who he piss' off because that is publicity and he is much more a celebrity than a poker player. You want to be a poker player.
+1
Also, if they're all drinking, drink a beer. Drink it very slooooowly so you stay plenty sharp, but blend in and let yourself seem like you're there to have fun.
Also, I tend to disagree with Donkslayer here. Limping in late position with suited, semi-connected cards can work great in these games. You want to pick up a lock hand, then enter valuetown. In games where five people are routinely calling preflop (which the $10/10 structure probably encourages), you want to see more hands, rather than less, and you want to see flops with hands that are likely to improve beyond tptk.
Nice thing is, that limp-from-late strategy can work real well with your "just one of the guys" attitude. Limp more than usual, tell some jokes, and then occasionally get lucky and hit that gutshot on the turn (which actually was two overcards, a flush draw, and a gutshot straight draw, but who's counting?).