Zealous Donkey
Wednesday, June 24th, 2009, 10:18 PM
QUOTE (vbnautilus @ Wednesday, June 17th, 2009, 5:21 PM)

I agree, but the fact is that we now have very effective methods of pychotherapy for many of the common things people experience. For example, my wife does cognitive-behavioral therapy for anxiety disorders, and its very very effective. People actually get better in a reasonable amount of time. The problem is that the public is not educated about this; they still think therapy means sitting on a couch talking about your mother for the rest of your life, and they often seek out therapists who do this rather than going to people who practice empirically supported treatments.
I am a huge St. Louis Cardinals baseball fan. This past winter the Cardinals acquired a free agent from the San Diego Padres organization, a shortstop named Khalil Greene. Khalil had been successful all through his short major league career. I remember watching him play against the Cardinals as he always seemed to beat up on our pitchers.
Last season with the Padres, Khalil went in a slump early in the year and was never able to recover. He dropped from one of the most productive shortstops in the league to the bottom of the pack. His season was cut short when he punched a locker after a bad game, broke his hand, and landed on the Disabled list for the remainder of the year.
He wasn't offered a contract by San Diego, and the Cardinals signed him during the off season to a high dollar contract.
I remember being very excited by the signing. The Cardinals needed an upgrade at shortstop and Khalil seemed like a perfect fit. I knew about his bad year but I also knew about the several productive seasons he had previously. I agreed with the Cardinals organization that a change of scenery would probably be enough to give him a new beginning and get him rolling again, after all, even hall of fame players have had off years.
Things seemed to be working well. In spring training where the games don't mean anything, Khalil excelled and looked like his old self. Cardinal fans were excited about what Khalil would be able to add to an offense that already hails the games best player, Albert Pujols.
The season got underway in April and Khalil was average for the first couple of weeks, though he uncharacteristically made several errors at shortstop. He then began slumping at the plate. He never seemed to get out of his funk. Some of his teammates leaked to the media that they were concerned about Khalil's well being. They had witnessed him, yelling at and beating on his self to such an extent that they genuinely felt he was in danger. He was seen leaving the clubhouse bleeding on at least one occasion that was reported.
All the details have never been laid out, but sketchy reports allow us to read between the lines. Khalil was suffering from anxiety which were causing panic attacks. He had always suffered with this but it had gotten worse last year in San Diego and was even worse yet this year with the Cardinals. He stated that it was "exhausting" trying to keep himself from blowing up when he failed. He had an overwhelming compulsion to punish himself.
Khalil, who is described by teammates as quiet, polite, and introspective, agreed to go on the disabled list and seek professional help for his "condition"
After three weeks, it was announced that Khalil was going to go on a rehab assignment in the minor leagues and that he was being switched from shortstop to 3rd base. The reason given was that 3rd base was a position where there is less responsibility, and was a position in which reacting quickly was most important.
Khalil made his return last weekend in Kansas City. He hit home runs in all three games he played, and has played outstanding at 3rd base. It was announced that Khalil suffers from a social anxiety disorder.
I find a couple of things fascinating. The most surprising thing to me is how open both the Cardinals and Khalil have been. Secondly I am surprised at how much he has been helped already. Everyone understands that there are going to be ups and downs that he is going to have to cope with, but I hope that this will help the public understand how really debilitating these things can get and that there is help out there.
I have family members and friends that suffer with these and similar issues and most have never once been to seek any kind of treatment. They don't want to be labeled a nut. Instead many times they self medicate with alcohol, drugs, or withdraw from interacting socially all together.
Anyway I guess I should have started another thread, but I thought maybe the OP would be interested in this too, so I went ahead and posted it here.
Khalil Greene thanks Cardinals for their support
By Derrick Goold
ST. LOUIS POST-DISPATCH
06/23/2009
NEW YORK — Fresh from his three-homer weekend, infielder Khalil Greene said it was his club's unflinching support during his time on the disabled list that galvanized his resolve to not only return to the Cardinals, but repay them.
A bruise on his right knee from a pitch late in Sunday's game at Kansas City had calmed enough that Greene started Monday for the fourth consecutive game at his new position, third base. Before the game at Citi Field, he described the role his teammates and others played in facilitating his return from the DL stint to address debilitating anxiety, a condition he felt contributed to a difficult ending with his former team.
"Given my experience in San Diego wasn't a great one, that left a bitter taste in my mouth," Greene said. "It felt like the trust factor had been shattered. On the micro-level aspect of it, that didn't involve the clubhouse, but I really felt soured by that. Here, obviously, they want me to contribute, but at the same time I felt a genuine sympathy for my well being. ... I wanted to respond to that."