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[nickforgot]

just had a job interview todayfirst one evari have to call tomorrow to see if got hired*fingers crossed*

[ricker]

I've always wanted an asian girlfriend. I realize that it may sound short sighted and racist for me to say that, but what's the problem with being attracted to one race more so than others? Too bad I'm in a committed relationship right now with no signs of it ending. I'd be up in MiraMesa like nobody's business.I should've never moved away from the Bay Area

[HangukMiguk]

ricker, on Thursday, June 1st, 2006, 1:46 PM, said:

I've always wanted an asian girlfriend. I realize that it may sound short sighted and racist for me to say that, but what's the problem with being attracted to one race more so than others? Too bad I'm in a committed relationship right now with no signs of it ending. I'd be up in MiraMesa like nobody's business.I should've never moved away from the Bay Area

I've been agreeing for years man.I've dated white girls. It's not that they weren't great girls, they just aren't appealing to me.I don't see it as racism at all. I simply see it as knowing your type, and going for it. It's the same as someone saying they only date redheads, only everyone clearly gets touchy over this because it's skin color and not other features that is being used to specify your type.It is, however, racism when your girlfriend's family will not accept you based on the fact that you are not Korean.

[CardWarfare]

what up.. just got home from work / lifting..actually its more of an extended break.. since i have to go back in about an hour and a half

[ricker]

HangukMiguk, on Thursday, June 1st, 2006, 2:51 PM, said:

I've been agreeing for years man.I've dated white girls. It's not that they weren't great girls, they just aren't appealing to me.I don't see it as racism at all. I simply see it as knowing your type, and going for it. It's the same as someone saying they only date redheads, only everyone clearly gets touchy over this because it's skin color and not other features that is being used to specify your type.It is, however, racism when your girlfriend's family will not accept you based on the fact that you are not Korean.

It's interesting because it's ok when you say you prefer blondes over brunttes, or redheads over old white haired women...That's not the point, the point is exactly like you said, it's all about preference. I think girls who are thin, shorter than average are really smoking hot. Of course, I prefer the larger breasts, but who doesn't really? But I've seen some HOT asian women who have naturally large breasts...those are the ones I would totaly go for.As far as the other family not liking you because you're white....I always hated that. Why is it ok for them to not like you because you're white, or to a lesser extent, not korean? I had a similar problem with my former fiance. She was mexican with a large mexican family. A lot of her cousins didn't like me because I was white. Although I did respect the hell out of their sunday dinners. Every sunday they all got together and had a gigantic bbq. Good stuff to eat, if not really uncomfortable for me

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HangukMiguk, on Thursday, June 1st, 2006, 2:51 PM, said:

I've been agreeing for years man.I've dated white girls. It's not that they weren't great girls, they just aren't appealing to me.I don't see it as racism at all. I simply see it as knowing your type, and going for it. It's the same as someone saying they only date redheads, only everyone clearly gets touchy over this because it's skin color and not other features that is being used to specify your type.It is, however, racism when your girlfriend's family will not accept you based on the fact that you are not Korean.

White women are the devil.

[HangukMiguk]

ricker, on Thursday, June 1st, 2006, 2:05 PM, said:

It's interesting because it's ok when you say you prefer blondes over brunttes, or redheads over old white haired women...That's not the point, the point is exactly like you said, it's all about preference. I think girls who are thin, shorter than average are really smoking hot. Of course, I prefer the larger breasts, but who doesn't really? But I've seen some HOT asian women who have naturally large breasts...those are the ones I would totaly go for.As far as the other family not liking you because you're white....I always hated that. Why is it ok for them to not like you because you're white, or to a lesser extent, not korean? I had a similar problem with my former fiance. She was mexican with a large mexican family. A lot of her cousins didn't like me because I was white. Although I did respect the hell out of their sunday dinners. Every sunday they all got together and had a gigantic bbq. Good stuff to eat, if not really uncomfortable for me

yeah i definitely get that. part of the problem seriously is, sadly, that koreans and japanese for the most part are highly xenophobic (moreso towards each other). anything that is not of their culture is not right with them. in fact, i've had many a girl brag about what korea has done, what koreans have invented, blah blah blah, i should write a list, just so i can reference it and tell them, "i already know."and the toughest part is that for a lot of them, there is no inbetween. you can learn as much of their language as possible, learn everything about their culture, and learn everything their is to know about their history, and it doesn't matter to them. it's a perk, and they're impressed, sure, but it still doesn't change the fact that you are not korean. you get upgraded to a white person trying to be, but it doesn't get you anywhere. your skin color is still white, you're still 5" taller than them, and your eyes aren't set the same way theirs is. no matter what, you're still an outsider, and it will always be harder for you to fit in with them than it would be for them to fit in with your family.what you gotta do is actually find the more independent girls that could give a crap what their family expects of them (who are usually searching for a non-korean guy), or find those that were adopted by white families. it's a toss-up between which is the better route. but i'd say the latter is probably the most -ev one of the two, as then it's basically just like dating a white women, only with yellower skin.

[ricker]

HangukMiguk, on Thursday, June 1st, 2006, 4:59 PM, said:

what you gotta do is actually find the more independent girls that could give a crap what their family expects of them (who are usually searching for a non-korean guy), or find those that were adopted by white families. it's a toss-up between which is the better route. but i'd say the latter is probably the most -ev one of the two, as then it's basically just like dating a white women, only with yellower skin.

True enough, however, is it really yellower skin? I just thought it was browner

[HangukMiguk]

ricker, on Thursday, June 1st, 2006, 4:01 PM, said:

True enough, however, is it really yellower skin? I just thought it was browner

Well, the common statement has always been yellow fever. So, to everybody, it's yellower. I'd say browner is not far off. But of course, then people the confuse it with black people. I've always found their skin is tanner than ours, and I usually think of it in that sense. Although, in certain light, it can look more yellow than anything. But yeah, I always go with tan over yellow. It sounds more appropriate, and raises fewer eyebrows.

[ricker]

HangukMiguk, on Thursday, June 1st, 2006, 5:10 PM, said:

Well, the common statement has always been yellow fever. So, to everybody, it's yellower. I'd say browner is not far off. But of course, then people the confuse it with black people. I've always found their skin is tanner than ours, and I usually think of it in that sense. Although, in certain light, it can look more yellow than anything. But yeah, I always go with tan over yellow. It sounds more appropriate, and raises fewer eyebrows.

meaning less racist sounding. Not that I disagree with you. I guess I only see in one colorbig beautiful boobies

[HangukMiguk]

ricker, on Thursday, June 1st, 2006, 4:14 PM, said:

meaning less racist sounding. Not that I disagree with you. I guess I only see in one colorbig beautiful boobies

i must admit, i cackled at that one.i can appreciate boobies though. although, i've never been picky, my main quirk about it is that they not be flat-chested. because then you feel like you're dating a dude. not cool.so i guess it's definitely not a bad thing that i've been attracted to asians. almost like i've been pre-programmed

[ricker]

agreed...the only bad part about dating an asian is that after you break up with one, you want to break up again about an hour later...

[HangukMiguk]

ricker, on Thursday, June 1st, 2006, 4:29 PM, said:

agreed...the only bad part about dating an asian is that after you break up with one, you want to break up again about an hour later...

but the positive part far outweighs the negative. after you have sex with one, you're horny again about an hour later.

[ricker]

HangukMiguk, on Thursday, June 1st, 2006, 5:30 PM, said:

but the positive part far outweighs the negative. after you have sex with one, you're horny again about an hour later.

true enough...

[Napa_Don]

I've never had relations with a different race but after reading this page I think I would be ready.

[ricker]

*in my best Quagmire voice* I've never made it with a Spanish chick before GIGGITY!Actually, all I've gotten are whities and my hot mexican ex-fianceMy current girlfriend is my first blonde

[Napa_Don]

I should also add that I met my first FCP'r tonight. madtrix turns out we live like 20 minutes from each other and he hosts poker games every tuesday/thursday nights at a sweet poker club with tons of tables.

[HangukMiguk]

it's definitely an experience, and i would recommend it. it's not for everyone, and it's definitely got it's difficult moments.i've actually had friends turn their backs on me because of my choice in women. back where i'm from, it's pretty homogeneous. seriously, it's uncommon to see a black person where i'm from. the first time i really remember seeing a black person face to face was when i was 7, to tell the honest truth.so yeah, in the area i grew up in, it kind of had the "if it's not white, it's not right," mentality.i actually went to high school with a couple klan members.

[ricker]

HangukMiguk, on Thursday, June 1st, 2006, 5:57 PM, said:

it's definitely an experience, and i would recommend it. it's not for everyone, and it's definitely got it's difficult moments.i've actually had friends turn their backs on me because of my choice in women. back where i'm from, it's pretty homogeneous. seriously, it's uncommon to see a black person where i'm from. the first time i really remember seeing a black person face to face was when i was 7, to tell the honest truth.so yeah, in the area i grew up in, it kind of had the "if it's not white, it's not right," mentality.i actually went to high school with a couple klan members.

You're not alone. Even in my liberal California, I lived in a small mountain town, which instantly transported us back to the 1960's...only with cell phones.

[Napa_Don]

HangukMiguk, on Thursday, June 1st, 2006, 4:57 PM, said:

it's definitely an experience, and i would recommend it. it's not for everyone, and it's definitely got it's difficult moments.i've actually had friends turn their backs on me because of my choice in women. back where i'm from, it's pretty homogeneous. seriously, it's uncommon to see a black person where i'm from. the first time i really remember seeing a black person face to face was when i was 7, to tell the honest truth.so yeah, in the area i grew up in, it kind of had the "if it's not white, it's not right," mentality.i actually went to high school with a couple klan members.

Wow, at my high school we had like 3 black people so I'm not completly un-diverse(small rural town in Iowa, less than 2k people) but our neighbors, who are white, had black grandkids when I used to live in town when I was like 5 and we'd hang out all summer so... I don't really know where I was going there.Anyways, I've always been strangely attracted to Asians but there weren't any where I came from. Now that I'm in a large college town theres tons though, I might have to hook up with some. This post probly comes off as racist but I hope you guys understand what I'm saying.