ricker, on Thursday, June 1st, 2006, 2:05 PM, said:
It's interesting because it's ok when you say you prefer blondes over brunttes, or redheads over old white haired women...That's not the point, the point is exactly like you said, it's all about preference. I think girls who are thin, shorter than average are really smoking hot. Of course, I prefer the larger breasts, but who doesn't really? But I've seen some HOT asian women who have naturally large breasts...those are the ones I would totaly go for.As far as the other family not liking you because you're white....I always hated that. Why is it ok for them to not like you because you're white, or to a lesser extent, not korean? I had a similar problem with my former fiance. She was mexican with a large mexican family. A lot of her cousins didn't like me because I was white. Although I did respect the hell out of their sunday dinners. Every sunday they all got together and had a gigantic bbq. Good stuff to eat, if not really uncomfortable for me
yeah i definitely get that. part of the problem seriously is, sadly, that koreans and japanese for the most part are highly xenophobic (moreso towards each other). anything that is not of their culture is not right with them. in fact, i've had many a girl brag about what korea has done, what koreans have invented, blah blah blah, i should write a list, just so i can reference it and tell them, "i already know."and the toughest part is that for a lot of them, there is no inbetween. you can learn as much of their language as possible, learn everything about their culture, and learn everything their is to know about their history, and it doesn't matter to them. it's a perk, and they're impressed, sure, but it still doesn't change the fact that you are not korean. you get upgraded to a white person trying to be, but it doesn't get you anywhere. your skin color is still white, you're still 5" taller than them, and your eyes aren't set the same way theirs is. no matter what, you're still an outsider, and it will always be harder for you to fit in with them than it would be for them to fit in with your family.what you gotta do is actually find the more independent girls that could give a crap what their family expects of them (who are usually searching for a non-korean guy), or find those that were adopted by white families. it's a toss-up between which is the better route. but i'd say the latter is probably the most -ev one of the two, as then it's basically just like dating a white women, only with yellower skin.