I didn't realize it was 4 handed my bad. I guess I don't play 4 handed enough but I still don't like defending suited connectors, I'm such a blind nit though. I hate being OOP.
I think I 3bet and check a decent amount, it's very villain dependent. Sometime I 3bet pf because I think he has a wide range and also is willing to fold to lots of 3bets then I'll 3bet wide, but if he calls the 3bet, I generally check it to him, and based on his tendencies and my hand strength I'm check/folding, check/calling, or check/raising.
I dunno, I don't mind giving up the lead and c/f a lot to also give rope a lot too. My C/R after a 3bet is generally going to be drawy hands, or against a stack that I think will commit himself with the flop bet. So if it's a stack that will commit himself I'd be doing it with a strong hand, and if it's just a regular stack it'd be as a semibluff. Exploitable? Absolutely, but I think it'd be tough to pick up on and hopefully I'm table selecting good enough for it not to matter.
Here's the thing...if the villain raises to a more typical 3.5-4x, I think a fold's perfectly reasonable. As it stands, we're just getting too good of odds. I don't go around trying to play suited connectors OOP, but if the situation arises, I'll do so. Three-betting with them regularly pre-flop isn't really in line with my overall strategy. I'd generally rather keep the pot smaller, especially OOP, until I can take a look at the flop. I'd sort of prefer to 3-bet in this situation for value or as a pure bluff.
I think 3-betting pre-flop is fine, but I think it's a little wonky to go for a c/r then. It's not necessarily bad, and given certain stack sizes, and opponents, I think it'd work great. In these games and given these stack sizes, I'm not really sure that I like it as much. Like say I'd 3-bet here pre to $94 (roughly what I'd guess I would've) and he calls. The pot's $193. I check, and he bets $150. If I'm sticking with my c/r, I basically am committed to stacking off. Cause if I c/r to a normalish $450, there's just no way I can fold for the rest...while just sticking it all-in now is going to be a pretty decent overbet. It's certainly a strong line, but I don't see the necessity. Let's say that villain started the hand with more like $800. That line becomes more attractive. If we're a lot deeper, it could work also.
Also, for whatever reason, I think that a lot of villains put you on AK when you c/r the flop after having the lead pre.
Bleh. I think the turn card is so bad for us that I just give it up on the turn, c/f. Shyt happens.
Based on my read, that card should be scarier for him than us.